Has someone ruined your life

7 signs you are in a toxic relationship & it is ruining your life

“When I broke up with my boyfriend at the time, it felt like a huge load had been lifted off my shoulders. I finally felt free again. "

When you're in a toxic relationship, often you don't even realize it because it is normal feels ... At least that's how it was for me.

Back then, my ex-partner made me feel small and worthless. It took me a long time to realize that it wasn't really good for me.

But when I noticed it and drew a line, I suddenly felt better.

We all deserve to find someone who does us good, builds us up and supports us instead of keeping us small and undermining our self-esteem.

That's why I advise you:

If any of the following seven signs apply to your relationship, take the time to reconsider the relationship - This also applies to friendships, by the way!

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1. You are always to blame for everything

Do you often have the feeling that you are not doing anything right and no matter how hard you try, everything gets wrong with the other?

In a toxic relationship, the partner constantly manages to make you feel guilty, even for things you did or said to the best of your knowledge.

No matter what, at the end of a discussion you are always meek and take the blame on yourself. In the long run it costs you a lot of energy and joie de vivre.

2. Your environment is not good enough

This sign shows that your partner is trying to isolate you - consciously or unconsciously.

Whenever you want to meet your friends or if you have a meeting with your family, something speaks against hanging out with them.

If the person by your side finds only bad things in everyone else who is important to you, you should give serious thought!

It seems like he wants to badmouth these people to you. This could be an attempt to make you dependent on him.

Reading tip: 9 signs that he doesn't really love you anymore

3. You are often threatened with separation

Even the smallest quarrels usually end with the suggestion that the relationship might be better ended.

Or maybe he says it very clearly on a regular basis without it actually ever happening.

Repeating the separation as a possible solution should convey fear of loss and make you compliant.

If the Danger of separation hovers over you, you are likely in a toxic relationship with someone who wants to control you.

4. Morbid jealousy

Do you know that?

You just look at someone in passing (maybe actually just because you like the person's shoes, for example) and immediately the drama starts.

Morbidly jealous people manage to put their partner under so much pressure that he hardly dares to contact other people.

This makes you feel trapped and unhappy very quickly, such a relationship can't last long before your nerves run out of steam.

5. Every word is turned around in your mouth

If you think extra long before each sentence whether this statement could somehow be taken away from you, something is wrong with the relationship.

Does your partner understand you constantly - unconsciously or consciously - wrongly and then still in the worst possible sense?

And unfortunately you know from experience that you have to be very careful how you phrase something?

You probably don't communicate well with each other, but the fact that he always interprets your words negatively suggests that he really doesn't think too much of you and / or thinks of himself.

6. You often feel bad in the presence of your partner

It may just be a faint, dull feeling, but this sign should make it very clear to you that this relationship is not doing you any good!

If you do not feel 100% comfortable and at home with someone, then it is very likely that they are not the right person by your side.

You should always feel accepted and loved by your partner and know that you can always be yourself!

7. You only think about the happiness of the other

In love it is part of not always putting yourself first. Clear…

But you must not forget that self-love is very important and that you only have something to give if you are not completely empty yourself.

But if you feel that your entire life and energy revolves around your partner, you are in a toxic relationship!

In a good relationship, you should not only be able to give but also receive. And you also have to make sure that you are doing well and not always sacrificing yourself, after all, it's your life!

Bottom line: are you in a toxic relationship?

If any of the signs, or even several, appear in your relationship, it's time to talk to your partner!

Tell him how you feel and what his actions trigger in you. Maybe he doesn't even know what he's doing and what he's destroying with his behavior ...

If he changes his behavior after the conversation, the chances are good that he didn't do it on purpose and actually has your best in mind.

However, if nothing changes, you should rethink the relationship because it is not good for you in the long run, it will keep you from reaching your goals and it will keep you from finding true love.

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